Q&A: My Parents Shut Down When I Try to Talk About Estate Planning. How Can I Help Them Open Up?

QUESTION Q: My parents shut down when I try to talk about estate planning. How can I help them open up? –Concerned Son   ANSWER A: Concerned, It can be difficult for some people to talk about estate planning because they don’t like to think about dying or may feel like the conversation is a…
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Q&A: Can you explain how the administration of a will works?

QUESTION Q: Can you explain how the administration of a will works? –Taking Care of Mom   ANSWER A: Dear Taking Care: In order for assets in a will to be transferred to a beneficiary, the will must first pass through the court process known as probate. During probate, the court oversees the will’s administration,…
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Q&A Can I leave my 401(k) to my minor children when I die?

QUESTION Q: Can I leave my 401(k) to my minor children when I die? –Pondering Parent   ANSWER A: Dear Pondering: Though you can technically name a minor child as a beneficiary of your 401(k), IRA, or other employment-sponsored retirement accounts, it’s never a good idea. Minor children cannot inherit the account until they reach…
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Q&A Do I need to create a new will if I move to another state?

QUESTION Q: Do I need to create a new will if I move to another state? –Curious Mover   ANSWER A: Dear Curious: Most states will accept a will that was executed properly under another state’s laws. However, there could be differences in the new state’s laws that make certain provisions in your will invalid.…
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Q&A: How do I include cryptocurrency in my estate plan?

QUESTION Q: How do I include cryptocurrency in my estate plan? — Crypto Owner   ANSWER A: Dear  Crypto, If you own cryptocurrency, you must leave detailed instructions for accessing it, and ensure that one or more trustworthy people know about your crypto and how to find these instructions. Since accessing crypto can be a…
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Q&A: What is the federal estate tax?

QUESTION Q: What is the federal estate tax? — Tax Planner   ANSWER A: Dear  Planner, The federal estate tax is a tax on the value of a person’s assets at the time of their death. If the total value of your estate is above a certain amount, known as the federal estate tax exemption,…
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Q&A: What estate planning should my child have in place once they reach adulthood?

QUESTION Q: What estate planning should my child have in place once they reach adulthood? — Proactive Parent ANSWER A: Dear  Proactive, Once your kid becomes a legal adult—which is age 18 or 21, depending on your state—many areas of their life that were once under your control will become entirely their responsibility. And if…
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Q&A: What is a pour-over will?

QUESTION Q: What is a pour-over will? — Prudent Planner   ANSWER A: Dear Prudent, For a living trust to function properly, you must first transfer the legal title of any assets you want to be held by the trust from your name into the name of the trust. Because it can be difficult to…
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Q&A: Can I tap into my retirement savings to pay for my child’s college education?

Q & A: QUESTION ______________________________________________________________________________ Q: Can I tap into my retirement savings to pay for my child’s college education? —Pondering Parent   ANSWER ______________________________________________________________________________ A: Dear Pondering: If your kids will need financial assistance, beyond student loans, to pay for their college education, it’s vital that the way in which you choose to save…
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Q&A: What is the “contestability period” on a life insurance policy?

Q & A: QUESTION ______________________________________________________________________________ Q: What is the “contestability period” on a life insurance policy? —New Beneficiary   ANSWER ______________________________________________________________________________ A: Dear Beneficiary: Most life insurance policies contain a contestability period. Such periods are typically between one to two years, and if the insured dies during this period, the insurance company can investigate the…
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Clarifying Questions

What is a charitable remainder trust?

Q: What is a charitable remainder trust? -Curious Dear Curious: A charitable remainder trust (CRT) is a unique estate planning tool that allows you to avoid taxes when you sell highly appreciated assets like stock and real estate. Moreover, a…

My father wants to quitclaim deed his house to me. Is this a good idea?

Q: My father wants to quitclaim deed his house to me before he dies, rather than include it in his will. Is this a good idea? -Interested Inheritor A: Dear Interested: While transferring ownership of real estate through a quitclaim…

My uncle died, and I think he had a will, but I’m not sure. How can I find out?

Q: My uncle died, and I think he had a will, but I’m not sure. How can I find out? -Will Wondering A: Dear Wondering: When someone dies, it’s fairly easy to find out if he or she left a will.…

Should I purchase an accidental death and dismemberment policy?

Q: I’m looking to buy insurance to protect my family. Should I purchase an accidental death and dismemberment policy? -Looking for coverage A: Dear Looking: When it comes to protecting your family, you might think the more insurance you have the…

Can I be paid for my duties as Financial Power of Attorney for my Mother?

Q: I have financial power of attorney for my mother. Can I be paid for managing her finances? -Billing Mom A: Dear Billing: Serving as an agent under financial power of attorney (POA) can involve considerable work, so you’re typically permitted…

Who should I name as executor of my will?

Q: Who should I name as executor of my will? -Pondering probate A: Dear Pondering: Selecting the right executor for your will is just as—if not more—important as deciding who gets your assets. Your executor will be legally required to…

How can I best provide for my pet using estate planning?

Q: How can I best provide for my pet using estate planning? -Dog Lover A: Dear Lover: A beloved pet can be just like family, so it makes sense you’d worry about how they’ll be taken care of when you…

My mother died with credit card debt. Am I responsible for paying that debt?

Q: My mother recently died with lots of credit card debt. Am I responsible for paying that debt? -Worried Son A: Dear Worried: Unless you’re a co-signer on the credit card, you aren’t responsible for that debt. As with nearly…

How does a living will work?

Q: How does a living will work? —Confused A: Dear Confused: Though it can be easy to confuse a “living will” with a “last will and testament” or a “living trust,” these estate planning documents are vastly different. A “last…

What is long-term care insurance?

Q: What is long-term care insurance? —Unsure A: Dear Unsure: Long-term care (LTC) insurance covers your basic daily needs over an extended period. While many think only the elderly need such care, LTC covers a wide demographic, including those of…

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