Q&A: My Parents Shut Down When I Try to Talk About Estate Planning. How Can I Help Them Open Up?

QUESTION Q: My parents shut down when I try to talk about estate planning. How can I help them open up? –Concerned Son   ANSWER A: Concerned, It can be difficult for some people to talk about estate planning because they don’t like to think about dying or may feel like the conversation is a…
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Q&A: Can you explain how the administration of a will works?

QUESTION Q: Can you explain how the administration of a will works? –Taking Care of Mom   ANSWER A: Dear Taking Care: In order for assets in a will to be transferred to a beneficiary, the will must first pass through the court process known as probate. During probate, the court oversees the will’s administration,…
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Q&A Can I leave my 401(k) to my minor children when I die?

QUESTION Q: Can I leave my 401(k) to my minor children when I die? –Pondering Parent   ANSWER A: Dear Pondering: Though you can technically name a minor child as a beneficiary of your 401(k), IRA, or other employment-sponsored retirement accounts, it’s never a good idea. Minor children cannot inherit the account until they reach…
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Q&A Do I need to create a new will if I move to another state?

QUESTION Q: Do I need to create a new will if I move to another state? –Curious Mover   ANSWER A: Dear Curious: Most states will accept a will that was executed properly under another state’s laws. However, there could be differences in the new state’s laws that make certain provisions in your will invalid.…
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Q&A: How do I include cryptocurrency in my estate plan?

QUESTION Q: How do I include cryptocurrency in my estate plan? — Crypto Owner   ANSWER A: Dear  Crypto, If you own cryptocurrency, you must leave detailed instructions for accessing it, and ensure that one or more trustworthy people know about your crypto and how to find these instructions. Since accessing crypto can be a…
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Q&A: What is the federal estate tax?

QUESTION Q: What is the federal estate tax? — Tax Planner   ANSWER A: Dear  Planner, The federal estate tax is a tax on the value of a person’s assets at the time of their death. If the total value of your estate is above a certain amount, known as the federal estate tax exemption,…
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Q&A: What estate planning should my child have in place once they reach adulthood?

QUESTION Q: What estate planning should my child have in place once they reach adulthood? — Proactive Parent ANSWER A: Dear  Proactive, Once your kid becomes a legal adult—which is age 18 or 21, depending on your state—many areas of their life that were once under your control will become entirely their responsibility. And if…
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Q&A: What is a pour-over will?

QUESTION Q: What is a pour-over will? — Prudent Planner   ANSWER A: Dear Prudent, For a living trust to function properly, you must first transfer the legal title of any assets you want to be held by the trust from your name into the name of the trust. Because it can be difficult to…
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Q&A: Can I tap into my retirement savings to pay for my child’s college education?

Q & A: QUESTION ______________________________________________________________________________ Q: Can I tap into my retirement savings to pay for my child’s college education? —Pondering Parent   ANSWER ______________________________________________________________________________ A: Dear Pondering: If your kids will need financial assistance, beyond student loans, to pay for their college education, it’s vital that the way in which you choose to save…
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Q&A: What is the “contestability period” on a life insurance policy?

Q & A: QUESTION ______________________________________________________________________________ Q: What is the “contestability period” on a life insurance policy? —New Beneficiary   ANSWER ______________________________________________________________________________ A: Dear Beneficiary: Most life insurance policies contain a contestability period. Such periods are typically between one to two years, and if the insured dies during this period, the insurance company can investigate the…
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Clarifying Questions

How are decisions made for an incapacitated person without a living will?

Q:        How are decisions made for an incapacitated person without a living will? –Concerned family member A:         Dear Concerned: Advance directives like living wills express someone’s wishes and preferences for medical treatment if they are unable to provide consent or…

What is legal guardianship?

Q:        What is legal guardianship? –Concerned parent A:         Dear Concerned: Broadly defined, a legal guardian is someone who is responsible for the care (and decision making) of a minor or dependent adult. A legal guardian for a child is typically…

How can I provide for my pet in my estate planning?

Q: How can I provide for my pet in my estate planning? –Concerned Pet Owner A: Dear Concerned: Many people have concerns about what will happen to their beloved pet when they die. Because so many of us view pets…

What will happen to my assets when I die?

Q: What will happen to my assets when I die?   –Concerned Family Member A: Dear Concerned: Many people wonder what will happen to their assets when they die. Indeed, concerns over this question are what inspire many people to…

How can a personal injury lawsuit or other settlement affect my government benefits?

Q: How can a personal injury lawsuit or other settlement affect my government benefits? –Concerned Plaintiff A: Dear Concerned: Receiving a personal injury settlement as compensation for your losses can bring significant financial relief if you are injured or disabled.…

What Happens to My 401K When I Die?

Q: What Happens to My 401K When I Die? –Concerned Employee A: Dear Concerned: For many working-age adults, the 401K is their most significant asset. Despite it being such an important asset, many people don’t know what will happen to…

How can I be financially ready to retire when the time comes?

Q: How can I be financially ready to retire when the time comes? — Concerned Worker A: Dear Concerned: Many people worry that they will be unable to make it financially when they retire. Of course, much grief can be…

I just found out that my granddaughter is gay. I’m crushed. What should I do?

Q: I just found out that my granddaughter is gay. I’m crushed. What should I do? — Anguished Grandparent A: Dear Anguished, It used to be that gay people simply kept that fact to themselves and made excuses for not…

Is it true that things I tell my lawyer are confidential?

Q: Is it true that things I tell my lawyer are confidential? — Concerned Client A: Dear Concerned: To receive high quality legal advice, it’s critical that you be completely open and honest with your lawyer. A lawyer’s advice is…

Should I be concerned that my divorce will hurt my kids?

Q: Should I be concerned that my divorce will hurt my kids? — Concerned Parent A: Dear Concerned: Many people worry that if they divorce their spouse, their kids will suffer. Whether that is true depends on many factors, such…

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