Q&A: My Parents Shut Down When I Try to Talk About Estate Planning. How Can I Help Them Open Up?

QUESTION Q: My parents shut down when I try to talk about estate planning. How can I help them open up? –Concerned Son   ANSWER A: Concerned, It can be difficult for some people to talk about estate planning because they don’t like to think about dying or may feel like the conversation is a…
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Q&A: Can you explain how the administration of a will works?

QUESTION Q: Can you explain how the administration of a will works? –Taking Care of Mom   ANSWER A: Dear Taking Care: In order for assets in a will to be transferred to a beneficiary, the will must first pass through the court process known as probate. During probate, the court oversees the will’s administration,…
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Q&A Can I leave my 401(k) to my minor children when I die?

QUESTION Q: Can I leave my 401(k) to my minor children when I die? –Pondering Parent   ANSWER A: Dear Pondering: Though you can technically name a minor child as a beneficiary of your 401(k), IRA, or other employment-sponsored retirement accounts, it’s never a good idea. Minor children cannot inherit the account until they reach…
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Q&A Do I need to create a new will if I move to another state?

QUESTION Q: Do I need to create a new will if I move to another state? –Curious Mover   ANSWER A: Dear Curious: Most states will accept a will that was executed properly under another state’s laws. However, there could be differences in the new state’s laws that make certain provisions in your will invalid.…
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Q&A: How do I include cryptocurrency in my estate plan?

QUESTION Q: How do I include cryptocurrency in my estate plan? — Crypto Owner   ANSWER A: Dear  Crypto, If you own cryptocurrency, you must leave detailed instructions for accessing it, and ensure that one or more trustworthy people know about your crypto and how to find these instructions. Since accessing crypto can be a…
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Q&A: What is the federal estate tax?

QUESTION Q: What is the federal estate tax? — Tax Planner   ANSWER A: Dear  Planner, The federal estate tax is a tax on the value of a person’s assets at the time of their death. If the total value of your estate is above a certain amount, known as the federal estate tax exemption,…
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Q&A: What estate planning should my child have in place once they reach adulthood?

QUESTION Q: What estate planning should my child have in place once they reach adulthood? — Proactive Parent ANSWER A: Dear  Proactive, Once your kid becomes a legal adult—which is age 18 or 21, depending on your state—many areas of their life that were once under your control will become entirely their responsibility. And if…
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Q&A: What is a pour-over will?

QUESTION Q: What is a pour-over will? — Prudent Planner   ANSWER A: Dear Prudent, For a living trust to function properly, you must first transfer the legal title of any assets you want to be held by the trust from your name into the name of the trust. Because it can be difficult to…
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Q&A: Can I tap into my retirement savings to pay for my child’s college education?

Q & A: QUESTION ______________________________________________________________________________ Q: Can I tap into my retirement savings to pay for my child’s college education? —Pondering Parent   ANSWER ______________________________________________________________________________ A: Dear Pondering: If your kids will need financial assistance, beyond student loans, to pay for their college education, it’s vital that the way in which you choose to save…
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Q&A: What is the “contestability period” on a life insurance policy?

Q & A: QUESTION ______________________________________________________________________________ Q: What is the “contestability period” on a life insurance policy? —New Beneficiary   ANSWER ______________________________________________________________________________ A: Dear Beneficiary: Most life insurance policies contain a contestability period. Such periods are typically between one to two years, and if the insured dies during this period, the insurance company can investigate the…
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Clarifying Questions

How can I help my grandchild with college without jeopardizing financial aid?

Q: How can I help my grandchild with college without jeopardizing financial aid? — Worried Grandparent A: Dear Worried: It is wonderful that you have built the financial security to be able to provide a gift to your grandchild, and…

I know I need to make a will, but somehow planning for death makes it seem so much more real. How can I overcome my fear?

Q: I know I need to make a will, but somehow planning for death makes it seem so much more real. How can I overcome my fear? — Financially Fearful A: Dear Financially Fearful: Even people who normally have it…

Do savings bonds still have a place in my financial portfolio?

Q: Do savings bonds still have a place in my financial portfolio? –Curious Investor A: Dear Curious: Savings bonds, also known as Treasury bonds, can be a valuable tool in your financial portfolio.  When you buy savings bonds, you are…

How can I preserve my assets for my kids and loved ones?

Q: How can I preserve my assets for my kids and loved ones? –Caring Parent A: Dear Parent: With tax time right around the corner, you may be thinking about how you can minimize what you’ll pay to Uncle Sam…

What is the Best Way to Save for My Child’s College Education?

Q: What is the Best Way to Save for My Child’s College Education? –Concerned Parent A: One of  best ways to save for your child’s college education, assuming the child will definitely go to college, is through a state operated…

Will I Ever be Able to Save Enough For Retirement?

Q:     Will I Ever be Able to Save Enough For Retirement? — Approaching Middle-Age A:      Dear Approaching:   Articles that are written about retirement savings needs usually paint a picture that leaves the reader asking this very question. These…

My elderly parents don’t have much in the way of resources and their health appears to be failing. They mainly get by on Social Security. Will I be responsible to pay their medical bills or other debts later on? – Very Concerned Adult Child.

Q: My elderly parents don’t have much in the way of resources and their health appears to be failing. They mainly get by on Social Security. Will I be responsible to pay their medical bills or other debts later on?…

The Gift that Keeps on Giving

Q: With all the new gadgets and toys out this year, I’m struggling to come up with gift ideas for my friends and family. Can you give me any unique gift ideas? ~ Thoughtful Gift-Giver A: Dear Thoughtful: The best…

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